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Why Not Add Personality to Your Content

It is quite easy to write a short article on almost any subject these days, but have you thought about adding some of your own experiences into your articles? When you inject personality into your writing it can take on a whole new life.

The minute you start writing about something that has personally happened to you, you start using words which convey more feelings. The reader picks up on these and can identify with them. This also helps build a connection between the reader and you, which is definitely a good thing!

Let’s say you were writing an article on having to make a decision about putting your dog to sleep. If you have been through this you can add more feeling and depth to your article. Instead of reading like a factual article, your article will become a short story and deal with the heart break of having to make this kind of decision.

Readers love to feel an emotional connection to whatever they are reading. If they can feel your struggles and pain they immediately feel the same way. By the time they have finished reading they will remember your name and want to read more of your work.

Some writers stay away from adding that personal touch to their work. Yes, it can be difficult to include some experiences. This is especially true for those experiences that evoke unpleasant reactions such as losing a loved one.

On the upside though, you are letting the human side of you come to the surface. You have allowed your vulnerability to come through and honestly, readers love this!

Of course you don’t have to write heart breaking stories all the time. It would be very draining to do so on a regular basis. Instead draw from some of your experiences so that you can add those deeper feelings into your content. May be you have struggled to lose weight at some point. Talk about it and remember the way you felt frustrated and how you found the motivation to keep going.

When readers identify with your work they are more likely to become a loyal reader. This means that they may subscribe to your RSS feed or they may sign up to your newsletter. When this happens they are letting you know that they want to hear more from you.

If you haven’t opened yourself up and let your personality come through why not try it the next time you write?All Pages

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You Don’t Need to Quit AI—You Just Need to Use It Smarter

Writers keep swinging between extremes. One side says AI is the end of creativity. The other treats it like a magic wand that can replace the entire writing process. Both sides miss the point.

 

The tool isn’t the problem. The way it’s used is. You don’t need to quit AI cold turkey. You just need to stop letting it run the whole show. Used the right way, it won’t steal your voice. It’ll sharpen it.

 

What gets writers into trouble is the craving for shortcuts. That’s the hook. “Just prompt and go.” Let AI build the world, create the characters, write the dialogue, plot the twists. It’s tempting because it feels like progress.

 

But what you get in speed, you lose in soul. You’re left with a story that ticks boxes but doesn’t move anyone. Worse, you lose your confidence. You read it back and it doesn’t sound like you. And instead of fixing it, you back out. You either abandon the project or double down on AI and call it “good enough.”

 

That’s how voice erosion happens. It’s not obvious at first. But the more you rely on AI to do the heavy lifting, the less your fingerprints show up. Your rhythm, your instincts, your offbeat ideas—those start to fade.

 

And once they’re gone, it’s hard to get them back. It’s like letting someone else do your workout and then expecting to stay in shape. AI doesn’t think. It doesn’t feel. It doesn’t take risks or pull from memory. It repeats patterns. If you let it run wild, your fiction starts to sound like everything else it was trained on.

 

You don’t need to throw AI out. You need to corral it. Use it where it’s weak, not where you’re strong. Use it to get unstuck, not to avoid the work. If you hate writing blurbs, use it there.

 

If you need ten ways to say “she slammed the door,” go for it. If you’re trying to brainstorm a character’s secret or backstory twist, let it offer ideas. But when it comes to turning those ideas into something real, that’s where you come in. That’s where your voice, your craft, your gut takes over.

 

The smarter use of AI starts with restraint. Don’t go to it first. Go to it after. Try writing the scene. If you hit a wall, bring AI in to ask, “What could happen next?” Let it toss out five options.

 

Most will be flat. But one might spark something. You shape it from there. That way, you’re still leading the story. You’re not outsourcing your choices. You’re using AI like a brainstorming partner, not a ghostwriter.

 

Also, stop treating the output as final. AI writes drafts. That’s it. Don’t copy-paste. Don’t trust it to know your tone, your pacing, your emotional timing. Even if the lines look clean, read them out loud.

 

You’ll hear the missing rhythm, the filler phrases, the hollow emotion. Then you revise. You don’t polish it. You reshape it. You bring your perspective to every sentence. That’s how you stay in control.

 

Another smart use is idea expansion. Say you’ve got a theme but no plot. Feed the theme into AI. See what tropes pop up. Not to use them all—but to recognize what readers expect. Then subvert it. Or sharpen it. Or avoid it altogether. AI gives you the lay of the land. You still decide where to build.

 

You can also use AI for pattern breaking. If your dialogue keeps falling flat, let AI offer a version. Not because it’s better, but because it’s different. Reading it side by side with your own version can highlight what you’re doing well and what you’re repeating too much. That kind of contrast builds skill. It teaches you to hear your voice and defend it.

 

Some writers use AI to mimic famous styles. That’s fine in short bursts. But don’t let it bleed into your whole manuscript. You’re not trying to sound like Hemingway or King. You’re trying to sound like you.

 

Let AI show you the bones of those styles, then go back and ask yourself what feels natural. Steal rhythm, not identity. Learn moves, not voices. Where writers really lose their way is in overprompting. They ask AI to generate whole chapters. Whole books. Then they try to “edit it into shape.”

 

But editing AI fiction is like painting over a traced drawing. You’re just layering your voice on top of something that was never fully yours. It takes twice the time and half the reward. You’d be better off writing a rough scene yourself and letting AI help with polish after.

 

One of the best uses of AI is questioning. Ask it why something in your scene feels flat. Ask it what’s missing from a character arc. Use it like a coach. Don’t accept its answers blindly.

 

Use them to push your thinking. You’ll be surprised how often that sparks something real. You go in asking about dialogue pacing and come out with a scene twist you wouldn’t have found on your own.

 

Don’t let AI strip out your struggle. That struggle is the forge. That’s where your stories take shape. The slow decision-making. The rewriting. The tension between what you want to say and what actually works. That’s the writer’s job. AI can’t do it for you. But it can walk alongside you while you do it.

 

There’s also the reader to consider. Readers are picking up on AI fiction faster than you think. They may not say, “This was written with AI,” but they’ll say, “This didn’t hit me.” They’ll say the voice felt off. Or the emotion didn’t land.

 

They’ll feel something was missing, even if they can’t explain it. That’s because AI doesn’t pull from life. It pulls from data. You pull from lived experience. From memories. From heartbreak, humor, loss, surprise. Readers want that. They’re hungry for it. If your fiction starts sounding like AI, they’ll tune out. Fast.

 

So no—you don’t need to delete the tool. You need to wield it. Thoughtfully. Sparingly. Strategically. Write the way you want to write. Use AI to support your process, not shape it. Use it like a hammer, not a sculptor. You don’t ask a hammer to design your house. You use it to drive in nails.

 

The smart writer doesn’t reject tech. They master it. They figure out where it helps, where it hinders, and where it has no business being. That balance lets you stay efficient without going hollow. It lets you publish faster without lowering quality. And it lets you keep your voice intact while still getting help where you need it.

 

You’re not falling behind if you’re still writing your own scenes. You’re not losing time if you’re shaping characters with care instead of prompts. That’s not a delay. That’s the work. That’s what makes a book worth reading. AI can’t take that from you unless you hand it over. So don’t.

 

Use AI when it makes your work better. Walk away from it when it doesn’t. That’s not fear. That’s wisdom. That’s control. And that’s what separates someone who writes with AI from someone who lets AI write them.

 

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Should I Choose a Genre Based on Word Count or Length of the Book?

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Choosing a genre based on word count or length of the book depends on several factors, including reader expectations, your writing style, and the market you’re targeting.

 

While word count itself shouldn’t be the sole determining factor in choosing a genre, it’s essential to understand the typical lengths for different genres and how they align with what you’re writing.

 

In genres like romance, readers tend to expect books that fall within a certain range, though there is a lot of flexibility. Shorter romance novels, such as category romances, can be around 50,000 to 60,000 words, while full-length romances often range from 70,000 to 100,000 words.

 

Romance novellas, which are shorter, are also popular, especially in subgenres like holiday romances or second-chance love stories. If you prefer writing shorter, more contained stories, romance offers many opportunities to meet those word count expectations without sacrificing depth or emotional engagement.

 

Thrillers and mysteries also have a wide range, but they typically hover between 70,000 and 100,000 words. These genres often require a tightly woven plot with enough complexity to keep readers engaged but not so much that it drags.

 

If you’re inclined toward fast pacing and intricate plotting, you’ll find that most thrillers and mysteries are expected to deliver high tension within a concise framework. If your story needs more room for red herrings, character development, or subplots, stretching to the higher end of the word count might be necessary, especially if you’re building a complex mystery or thriller with multiple twists.

 

Fantasy and science fiction, on the other hand, are known for their longer word counts, particularly because they involve extensive world-building. Novels in these genres can range from 90,000 to well over 120,000 words, especially in epic fantasy or space opera.

 

If your story demands intricate settings, magic systems, or deep lore, choosing fantasy or science fiction gives you the space to explore those elements. Readers in these genres expect longer works that immerse them in the world and provide expansive character arcs, so if you enjoy writing in-depth, sprawling narratives, these genres may be the right choice for you.

 

Historical fiction, much like fantasy and science fiction, tends to require more space for setting the scene and delving into the historical context. The typical word count for historical fiction can range from 80,000 to 120,000 words, depending on the period and complexity of the narrative.

 

Readers in this genre expect detailed descriptions of the era, as well as rich character development that fits within the historical context. If your story covers multiple timelines or significant historical events, the genre allows for a higher word count, which is often necessary to do justice to both the setting and the characters.

 

Genres like literary fiction don’t have rigid word count rules, but they do tend to fall between 70,000 and 100,000 words, with room for variation. Literary fiction readers prioritize character development, thematic exploration, and style, so the word count may fluctuate depending on the depth of the subject matter.

 

If you enjoy a more introspective writing process and want to focus on characters and themes rather than plot, the genre can accommodate a more flexible approach to length.

 

Novellas, which typically fall between 20,000 and 40,000 words, are an option in many genres, particularly in romance, science fiction, and horror. Novellas allow for quick, contained storytelling and are often a good fit for writers who want to focus on a single idea or emotional arc without delving into subplots.

 

If you’re looking to write something shorter but still impactful, novellas provide a great way to experiment with genre without the pressure of a full-length novel. Children’s and young adult (YA) fiction also have specific word count expectations based on the target age group.

 

Middle-grade novels usually fall between 30,000 and 50,000 words, while YA novels typically range from 50,000 to 80,000 words. These genres require concise, engaging narratives that maintain pacing suitable for younger readers. If you’re writing for a younger audience and prefer shorter, fast-paced storytelling, choosing YA or middle-grade fiction may align with your word count goals.

 

In contrast, if you’re considering genres like horror, the word count can vary greatly depending on the type of horror you’re writing. Shorter horror stories and novellas are particularly popular because the genre lends itself well to shorter, high-impact narratives.

 

Full-length horror novels, however, can range from 60,000 to 90,000 words. If you’re writing horror, consider whether your story relies on a slow build of tension or quick, intense scares—this will help you determine the right length for the book.

 

Ultimately, while understanding typical word counts for different genres is important, you shouldn’t force your story into a specific genre just because it fits a certain word count range. Instead, focus on what the story demands.

 

If the plot, pacing, and character development naturally lead to a shorter or longer word count, that should guide your decision. You can always refine your story in the editing process to ensure it aligns with reader expectations for the genre you choose.

 

Rather than choosing a genre solely based on word count, use word count as one of many factors in deciding where your story fits. Consider the story’s complexity, the genre’s expectations, and the audience you’re targeting. Let the natural length of your book guide you toward a genre that accommodates both your creative goals and market expectations.

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Journal Entry – What’s your Why?

Some people think your Why is you are on the internet because you want to make money.

That is wrong.

You are not on the internet to make money. There are easier ways to make money. 🙂

You are on the internet because you want to improve your life.

Whether you want to have income coming in to your bank account  so you can work less and enjoy your hobbies.

Whether you want income coming in to your life so you can help your children go to college or help your children to afford their own home.

Whether you have an “urge” to share your wisdom so others don’t have to go through health challenges you have had in your life.

Whether you want to help because the act of helping gives you an emotionally positive feeling when you know you have helped others.

Your Why is what gets you out of bed each morning to get onto the internet to make some money.

Your Why can be you want to share your writings with the world.

Your Why may be an urgent need to get some revenue to pay bills that are piling up in your life.

Your Why is the reason you get out of bed each morning to go and earn some revenue in order to answer your Why.

Defining Your Why will make it easier to prioritze what you do each day.

When you first hung out your virtual shingle, you likely were thinking:

  • “I can’t wait to get away from this awful job.”
  • “I just want to be home with my kids.”
  • “This dead-end job is going nowhere.”
  • “I’m tired of working crazy hours and holidays.”
  • “I know I’m worth more than they’re paying me.”

These and many, many other thoughts go through the heads of every would-be business owner, and are often the driving force behind that final, “I quit.”

But while they’re great for lighting a fire and inspiring you to make a scary jump to business ownership, they’re not so fabulous at motivating you to grow and improve. They won’t inspire you to increase your skills and raise your rates and be brave and authentic in your marketing. They won’t help you find the courage to hire a new coach or launch a brand new program.

To find the inspiration to make your business thrive, you have to identify the real why behind what you do.

Passionate Whys

“Passion based” is a phrase that’s found a massive following in the past few years, and seems to be the holy grail of entrepreneurial adventures. And for business owners with a true passion for their field, it can be a strong motivator.

Some business owners are passionate about a subject, spending all their waking hours learning about the topic. Some are passionate about a market, and would do anything to help their ideal client achieve his or her goals.

Whichever type of passion-based business owner you are, learning to harness that passion will help take your business to the next level.

Financial Whys

Maybe you want to retire at 40 to travel the world, or send your kids to an elite private school. Maybe you love fast cars, and dream of driving a brand new Ferrari.

Whatever your big dream, you knew you’d never make it while putting in time at the day job. While everyone seems to go on and on about those passion-based dreams, the truth is there’s nothing wrong with wanting financial fulfillment. Money is a necessary tool. We need it, and the more we have, the easier life is. And wanting more of it is nothing to be ashamed of, as long as you maintain your integrity and authenticity in pursuit of it.

Philanthropic Whys

Plenty of online business owners go into business so they can have more to give. You’ve no doubt heard of—or maybe even know—marketers who use their earnings to fund mission trips, build schools in war-torn, third world countries, and support a variety of charities at home and abroad. Others use the time freedom they’ve built into their business to volunteer with local hospitals, animal shelters and children’s organizations.

If you have a heart for a cause, a philanthropic why might be the driving force that takes your business to the next level.

To find your own why, consider your biggest dreams. If money were no object, what would you be doing?

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Day Zero – Do a Journal Post per day challenge

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In a way to increase my writing, I am going to challenge myself to write each day about my internet activities.

Yesterday, it was Victoria Day, so I had a day off from work.  I have some pressure to get clicks on my email and social media posts. When I signed up for Proven Email Formula, I don’t remember any mention of doing a giveaway but it was the first thing we did.

So I had my book “7 Steps to produce your first show” as a freebie but it is very niche-related. It is for people who know they need to get more visible on the internet.

So I created an email where I screwed up the shortlink by adding a period in the hyperlink so it gave a 404 error. Also, I have two affiliate links for the giveaway so that’s going to confuse.  When I sent a sample email given for the giveaway – swipe mail- I made a mistake and I copy/pasted the Hi [first name] into my email that is what showed once I sent the email.

So, I learned

  1. Never to copy/paste code as it just shows as text.
  2. Keep the hyperlinked short link separate from surrounding text so you don’t capture a period.

Another issue with my website was my SimpleClick Tracker wouldn’t add any new shortlinks into it ‘s system. It’s probably a conflict with one of the other plugins or the ?  I turned off the latest plugins that were added but it didn’t stop the issue.  So, I added Pretty Links in which was quick and easy. Even though it is been years since the last time Pretty Links was added there were old shortlinks in it with the stats on the number of clicks history.

The website is so large with 700 posts, mostly video, that I have to pay for a larger server. Nothing I can do about it as each Facebook broadcast gets put on the website. Then if I was to delete the Facebook plugin, I would have 500 empty posts!  So, I need to finish editing the HOME page so it links to other websites based on topic.

T0 do this week:

  1. Finish the look of the HOME page for the website.
  2. Do a social media post every day.
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5 Tips on How to Learn How to Write

Can Anyone Learn to Write?

This is a question that gets asked frequently, so is it really possible for anyone to learn how to write? Most people assume that you must have a certain knack to be a writer. While it is true that certain people do posses a flair for writing, it is something which anyone can do.

Of course it helps if you have the desire to want to become a better writer. As with learning anything new those students who are motivated and driven will learn better than those who have no desire to learn.

A quick search online will bring up tons of writing tips and suggestions on how to write faster and produce more content. Some of these tips are extremely useful and helpful while others are not. Let’s take a quick look at some of the top writing tips.

1. Make time to practice writing each day – this is probably the best advice anyone can give you. It is true that the more you write the better you become. So set aside some time each day and get writing.

2. Read every day – another great tip which is definitely helpful. By exposing your mind to fresh content daily your vocabulary and your knowledge increases.

3. Be prepared to write lots of drafts – this is again very true and something that you must get used to doing. By rewriting your work you are improving it each time. What may have started out as a vague idea can easily be turned into a compelling piece of content.

4. Edit and proofread – valuable tips and something that every writer should get into the habit of doing. By editing your work you can find silly mistakes such as writing breast instead of beast. Plus you can check the flow and meaning of your work as well. Always edit your work after it has sat unopened for at least one day.

5. Research and check facts – another helpful tip. Researching your content can help you state accurate facts and figures in your work. There would be nothing more embarrassing than quoting a wrong saying or date in your work. Researching is also a great way of discovering new topics to write about.

As you can see it is not difficult to put these 5 tips into action. As long as you have the motivation to learn there is absolutely no reason why you can’t become a published author.

 

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Adding Your Personality to your Writing

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Adding Personality to Your Writing, Yes Please!

It is quite easy to write a short article on almost any subject these days, but have you thought about adding some of your own experiences into your articles?

When you inject personality into your writing it can take on a whole new life.

Today is a Friday and I’m thinking about what to do this weekend.

What long walk can I take the dogs on so I can lose weight without damaging my knees? It is supposed to be the hottest day of the year so if we go at 7 a.m., I shouldn’t sweat too much.  The dogs, Angus, my Cairn Terrier and Cookie, my California Rescue pinscher chihuahua cross look at me with imploring eyes and wagging their tails in the morning as they know we are going exploring. (Will have to add a video here. 🙂 )   Some days, I disappoint them as it is raining heavily or it is “Garbage Day” with several garbage trucks zooming around our streets but other days…. when we turn right down the path and on to the long stretch of road that lasts, they know it is a good day 🙂 . 

The minute you start writing about something that has personally happened to you, you start using words which convey more feelings. The reader picks up on these and can identify with them. This also helps build a connection between the reader and you, which is definitely a good thing!

Let’s say you were writing an article on having to make a decision about putting your dog to sleep. If you have been through this you can add more feeling and depth to your article. Instead of reading like a factual article, your article will become a short story and deal with the heart break of having to make this kind of decision.

Readers love to feel an emotional connection to whatever they are reading. If they can feel your struggles and pain they immediately feel the same way. By the time they have finished reading they will remember your name and want to read more of your work.

Some writers stay away from adding that personal touch to their work. Yes, it can be difficult to include some experiences. This is especially true for those experiences that evoke unpleasant reactions such as losing a loved one.

On the upside though, you are letting the human side of you come to the surface. You have allowed your vulnerability to come through and honestly, readers love this!

Of course you don’t have to write heart breaking stories all the time. It would be very draining to do so on a regular basis. Instead draw from some of your experiences so that you can add those deeper feelings into your content. May be you have struggled to lose weight at some point. Talk about it and remember the way you felt frustrated and how you found the motivation to keep going.

When readers identify with your work they are more likely to become a loyal reader. This means that they may subscribe to your RSS feed or they may sign up to your newsletter. When this happens they are letting you know that they want to hear more from you.

If you haven’t opened yourself up and let your personality come through why not try it the next time you write?

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Writing Strategies for Blog Posts

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The more you blog, the quicker you’ll grow at writing effective, punchy blog posts.

Eliminate distractions

Disconnect from the internet and don’t go near Facebook.  Turn off the ringer on your phone.  Shut your home office door, if you can.  Put up a “Do Not Disturb ” sign.  Use “Full Width” setting in your computer writing software or WordPress so you aren’t distracted by what tags or category you need and H1 or H2 to make the words pretty.

Tell the kids it is “Writing Time.”

Bribe the kids with one hour of computer time games before school.  Prepare lunches the night before.  Put an alarm clock on for 30 minutes writing time.  Get up at 5 a.m. instead of 6 a.m. each morning for time to write in your pajamas. Write about your pajama time!  You don’t need to watch “Real Housewives” with the kids.

Go in the back room and shut the door! Set up a table in the bedroom with your computer or even just paper and pen.  Keep everyone away from this table and keep every pen and where you finished writing off on the computer  ready for you to sit down and just write!

Pick the same time every day

Try to pick your ideal time of day to write – for example, at 9:30 a.m. , when you’ve got that freshly-made cup of coffee sitting on your desk, the kids are safely in school and the dog is fast asleep after his morning walk.

Or as mentioned before, get up while everyone is sleeping, brush your teeth and sit down at the kitchen table and write for an hour with a cup of coffee. Your family will be amazed at how much writing you are getting done even if you aren’t happy with it. It is the habit of writing and of thinking about writing which will get your brain awake and doing the good writing.

Make that time slot sacred.  You’ll be amazed at how easy it becomes to start writing creatively, when it’s a daily habit.  You can become conditioned to be ready to write by making sure you pick the same time or the same day of the week. If your brain knows it is 5 a.m. so wake up your writing muse, it will become easier to write, write and write.

More writing strategies tomorrow as I do my own Writing Strategies Blog Challenge with 30 days with 30 posts..see I am making it a habit. 🙂

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