Adding Your Personality to your Writing

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Adding Personality to Your Writing, Yes Please!

It is quite easy to write a short article on almost any subject these days, but have you thought about adding some of your own experiences into your articles?

When you inject personality into your writing it can take on a whole new life.

Today is a Friday and I’m thinking about what to do this weekend.

What long walk can I take the dogs on so I can lose weight without damaging my knees? It is supposed to be the hottest day of the year so if we go at 7 a.m., I shouldn’t sweat too much.  The dogs, Angus, my Cairn Terrier and Cookie, my California Rescue pinscher chihuahua cross look at me with imploring eyes and wagging their tails in the morning as they know we are going exploring. (Will have to add a video here. 🙂 )   Some days, I disappoint them as it is raining heavily or it is “Garbage Day” with several garbage trucks zooming around our streets but other days…. when we turn right down the path and on to the long stretch of road that lasts, they know it is a good day 🙂 . 

The minute you start writing about something that has personally happened to you, you start using words which convey more feelings. The reader picks up on these and can identify with them. This also helps build a connection between the reader and you, which is definitely a good thing!

Let’s say you were writing an article on having to make a decision about putting your dog to sleep. If you have been through this you can add more feeling and depth to your article. Instead of reading like a factual article, your article will become a short story and deal with the heart break of having to make this kind of decision.

Readers love to feel an emotional connection to whatever they are reading. If they can feel your struggles and pain they immediately feel the same way. By the time they have finished reading they will remember your name and want to read more of your work.

Some writers stay away from adding that personal touch to their work. Yes, it can be difficult to include some experiences. This is especially true for those experiences that evoke unpleasant reactions such as losing a loved one.

On the upside though, you are letting the human side of you come to the surface. You have allowed your vulnerability to come through and honestly, readers love this!

Of course you don’t have to write heart breaking stories all the time. It would be very draining to do so on a regular basis. Instead draw from some of your experiences so that you can add those deeper feelings into your content. May be you have struggled to lose weight at some point. Talk about it and remember the way you felt frustrated and how you found the motivation to keep going.

When readers identify with your work they are more likely to become a loyal reader. This means that they may subscribe to your RSS feed or they may sign up to your newsletter. When this happens they are letting you know that they want to hear more from you.

If you haven’t opened yourself up and let your personality come through why not try it the next time you write?

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Writing Strategies for Blog Posts

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The more you blog, the quicker you’ll grow at writing effective, punchy blog posts.

Eliminate distractions

Disconnect from the internet and don’t go near Facebook.  Turn off the ringer on your phone.  Shut your home office door, if you can.  Put up a “Do Not Disturb ” sign.  Use “Full Width” setting in your computer writing software or WordPress so you aren’t distracted by what tags or category you need and H1 or H2 to make the words pretty.

Tell the kids it is “Writing Time.”

Bribe the kids with one hour of computer time games before school.  Prepare lunches the night before.  Put an alarm clock on for 30 minutes writing time.  Get up at 5 a.m. instead of 6 a.m. each morning for time to write in your pajamas. Write about your pajama time!  You don’t need to watch “Real Housewives” with the kids.

Go in the back room and shut the door! Set up a table in the bedroom with your computer or even just paper and pen.  Keep everyone away from this table and keep every pen and where you finished writing off on the computer  ready for you to sit down and just write!

Pick the same time every day

Try to pick your ideal time of day to write – for example, at 9:30 a.m. , when you’ve got that freshly-made cup of coffee sitting on your desk, the kids are safely in school and the dog is fast asleep after his morning walk.

Or as mentioned before, get up while everyone is sleeping, brush your teeth and sit down at the kitchen table and write for an hour with a cup of coffee. Your family will be amazed at how much writing you are getting done even if you aren’t happy with it. It is the habit of writing and of thinking about writing which will get your brain awake and doing the good writing.

Make that time slot sacred.  You’ll be amazed at how easy it becomes to start writing creatively, when it’s a daily habit.  You can become conditioned to be ready to write by making sure you pick the same time or the same day of the week. If your brain knows it is 5 a.m. so wake up your writing muse, it will become easier to write, write and write.

More writing strategies tomorrow as I do my own Writing Strategies Blog Challenge with 30 days with 30 posts..see I am making it a habit. 🙂

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To Write

Scriven is defined from Old French  “scrive” which is “to write.”  The action of writing ; the beauty of writing and the love of reading will be explored on this website.  Why?  As I like to say, “Why not!”.   A person should explore all things in their life they encounter because they are experiences that you can learn from.  This website has been here empty and unloved for a couple of years. So, now is the time to start the creative juices running and explore different topics.  Shall it be:

1. My daily journal

2. My writings in progress

3. My podcasts on writing process

4. Quotes i find for the day and why they inspire me?

5. Chapters from a book that I am writing?

6. Review of books I love and why?

It can be this and so much more if I find the right theme.

Regards, jane

Categories: To Write

Change in Focus

I think I need to define what this blog is about before I can start writing.

I know that you don’t want to read about my challenges while starting a business.

I expect you would like to know about the challenge and then how to solve it!

Anyway, I will be getting on to talking about blogging and some of the ways you can monetize your blog so you can continue as a business rather than a hobby.

Also, I have a lot of books on writing I could review so you can decide if or it isn’t worth spending money for that book.

We will see if I like this free Theme and if it can be made workable to be monetized. I have a feeling it isn’t but I’ll go check and see if I can add any plugins to it.

So, I am starting over and I think the first thing I have to do is to define the purpose for the scriven.ca blog.   Talk later.

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Music for the Soul

As a writer, if you don’t know about www.medium.com, you are missing out on an opportunity for you and also some great stories about life and love and mind. I get the daily digest from Medium. There is always some thoughtful story on it everday to read.

This is a wonderful story below about how a family has gotten the music “Fireworks” to inspire them every day with their daughter’s challenges.

Have you thought about writing on Medium? It is free and you might find some great thoughts and free writing coming out of you….

For me, this affirms what I always felt about music. Music is our soul . Without music, humanity would be lost just as if all books were banned like in Farenheit 451. My husband and I have a collection of 2000 CDS and 500 LPs and we listen to them all the time. I like to play piano just for my own pleasure as it inspires and soothes me.

What about you? Does music move you? Does it inspire? Does it soothe? Does it make you happy? Or do you put on sad music or heartbreak songs to make you know you aren’t the only one having heartbreak?

We would be lost without music.

 

Thank You, Katy Perry

Categories: To Write